WTF?????

topic posted Tue, March 28, 2006 - 6:05 PM by  Nandi
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This was also posted in the "I love Middle Eastern Dance and Music" tribe. It disturbed me that much.....
www.saqra.net/temporary.htm
There's more I could fire off about this, but I'll wait.
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Nandi
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  • Re: WTF?????

    Wed, March 29, 2006 - 8:52 AM
    This offends on so many levels where to begin?
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      Wed, March 29, 2006 - 10:02 AM
      I'm beginning with the Black male "slaves" they were wrapped around. I am appalled that such a display of racist sexual stereotyping was allowed ... and that it was allowed under the heading of "belly dance." Not to mention the pornographic content of the presentation. From what I know, Rakkasah is a family-friendly event, is it not?

      I am offended as a Black woman *and* as a bellydancer.
  • Re: WTF?????

    Wed, March 29, 2006 - 11:21 AM
    This was my reply to the photo that I saw.
    I emailed my statement to be quoted. This is my feelings to that performance.


    Ravenmoon

    Thank you Beatrice for keeping me updated on this performance. I wasn't
    there, but I got a chance to see the photos. I am also disappointed that two
    beautiful fantastic dancers chose a theme such as this at a family oriented
    festival, and to choose two Black Body builders as sex slaves, when we as
    Black people try so hard to shed that stereotypical attitudes of "Black Men
    White Women". Speaking for The Nubian Divas: Our mission is to educate our
    black women, and reacquaint them of their ancestral heritage, that this
    dance is a beautiful art form for women of all cultures to learn and enjoy.
    Black people, Black women( a majority of them) , see this dance as a sleazy
    dance that "White women do" We are already having a difficult time in some
    aspects, convincing our Black Sisters that sex, and black sex slaves, are
    not what this beautiful art form is about. To see a performance like that
    only sets us back. Like I said Sadie and Kala are fantastic dancers in their
    own right, and I love watching them dance, and neither of them needed that
    kind of sensationalism. I personally don't like to be censored, but when
    performances such as that, that would heighten a negative racial conflict of
    opinions, should not be entered into ANY festival. I'm sure the fallout will
    make them famous in some places, infamous in other, but overall, it was very
    poor taste. Then, maybe that was their motive in the first place. The Nubian
    Divas will continue lead by example, and to instill a higher standard of
    what we are putting out their for our Black people, and also our many non
    Black Sisters to
    draw upon.

    Regards Anniitra Ravenmoon

    • Re: WTF?????

      Wed, March 29, 2006 - 3:16 PM
      How to begin.
      My wonderful friend sent me the most unemotional description that she could of the show, as she was there and my response was that it was the stupidest most racist act since Amos and Andy.
      By the way, she is a White woman and she felt the same way.
      The sad fact, is that some Black people see no harm in this stuff, like the husband of one of the dancers in the show. My friend wrote a beautiful letter to the sponsor, letting her know that she was disgusted by the racist and sleazy performance. Also should be noted that these two sometime perform at fetish shows and at the strip clubs.
      I love what your Diva vision statement is and it can be adapted by all of us as well, all we can do is perform at our best and be our best not only as Black women , but as Black belly dancers.
      I hope this is what people remember.
      • Re: WTF?????

        Wed, March 29, 2006 - 5:38 PM
        Dear Lord - where do I begin??? They have offended me in so many ways, as a Latina, as a woman, as a dancer, as a witch, etc I could go on and on. When they hit the stage being carried on the black "slaves" shoulders my friend and I just stared at each other WTF is right. There was a group of women sitting behind us watching and I could hear the mom say "put on some clothes" - she was sitting with her Mom and daughter at the time. To say that this was innappropriate for Rakkasah would be the understatement of the year. I would expect to see that kind of show at one of Leela's productions that are more Adult oriented and at night than a family festival, in the middle of the day.
  • Re: WTF?????

    Thu, March 30, 2006 - 6:01 AM
    I wasn't able to connect for some reason. What exactly was it?
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      Thu, March 30, 2006 - 8:25 AM
      they were simulating sex using the positions from the kama sutra. There were two extremely well developed black men carrying these two white girls in on their shoulders and then they proceeded to do everything you see in the kama sutra. Saqra had posted a couple of pics briefly to show at least some of what went on. They were all very scantily clad and at one point the girls were sitting on the mens shoulders with the guys faces buried in their crotches and apparently it went down hill from there.
      • Re: WTF?????

        Thu, March 30, 2006 - 10:25 AM
        Well the flack has begun, not only is there a posting on the Rakkasah site, but my friend who was there and sent a letter to the sponsor recieved an apology from them as well.
        It seems that they were taken quite off guard as well as everyone else and admitted that they should have closed the curtains. I can appreciate their honesty and believe it won't happen again.
        As for the "dancers", it seems that they don't seem to have a problem with this as I understand it.
        • Re: WTF?????

          Thu, March 30, 2006 - 12:13 PM
          They have issued a statement - NOT an apology - not that I would have expected it . Here it is from Kaya's website>>>

          As you may know, our performance at Rakkasah 2006 has generated much discussion and comment. Our personal experience after our show at Rakkasash was very positive and supportive from the attendees as well as much of the Rakkasah staff. Given that, we believe it was important for us to briefly discuss the issue.

          First of all, thank you to the many beautiful ladies who came up to us after the show to buy videos, sign up for classes, take photos, and congratulate us on our performance. We were humbled by that show of love and appreciation.
          We also appreciated the very few of you who took a moment to personally raise concerns about parts of our show. Art is only worthwhile if it provokes conversation and challenges convention. We strive to make every performance a true work of art.

          It is certainly unfortunate that some people were offended. To offend was certainly not our intent. We have always believed Rakkasah to be a supporter of new and innovative concepts within bellydance. As long time supporters and attendees of Rakkasah we have seen many performances that challenge conventional ideas of belly dance including provocative shows which showcased revealing costumes, simulations of intimacy, and even suggestive sounds and music. We certainly felt, and still feel that our performance was within the boundaries previously allowed, without comment, by the promoter.

          As for the promoter herself, we were disappointed by her reaction. As a professional we would have appreciated direct contact, of any kind, prior to posting derogatory comments about us and announcing us as former teachers implying a "ban." Such an opportunity to discuss the issue with us was certainly available when, after the performance, we saw her and exchanged a warm and friendly greeting. To have this followed with an attack on our personal and artistic integrity is both unprofessional and an unfortunate degradation of the standard we had come to expect from Rakkassah. We certainly hope that future teachers and performers will not be bullied into compromising their artistic vision or have their reputations injured by such inconsistent policies and behaviors.

          As for us, we again offer our thanks to the many of you who have contacted us as a show of support and appreciation. We will continue to strive to stage exciting and beautiful productions.


          Sincerely,
          Kaya & Sadie


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  • Re: WTF?????

    Mon, April 3, 2006 - 9:11 AM
    Okay so I saw the pictures late. These women make me think "belly dancers or strippers?" I'm brand new to the world of bellydancing but I know that this goes against what bellydancing is all about. From what I've read these women are supposed to be recognized and accomplished dancers so what is the purpose of all of that. As far as having the "slaves" let us not forget that that great Mandingo warrior is still a fantasy for a lot of women of European decent. There is nothing new under the sun and obviously the world hasn't changed much.
  • Re: WTF?????

    Tue, April 4, 2006 - 9:12 AM
    Why is that people do such stupid stuff then turn around and say i didnt mean to offend anyone? What in the hell did they think that it was going to do? Now we are talking about the two ladies what's up with the two brothas who are on stage?

    What in the hell were they thinking? Well i just have one phrase "Cocaine is a helluva drug"!
    • Re: WTF?????

      Tue, April 4, 2006 - 9:54 AM
      Morocco made a very interesting post on Bhuz... I will cut and paste it here when I find it again.

      • MOROCCO HERE: THAT URL DOESN'T WORK!!!

        Are you freakin' kiddin' me??? What in the world does that have to do with belly dance??? I mean, really - I'm happy as I can be to look at scantily clad, buff brothas - but to see those women on stage with a dude's head between their legs ... come on! You have to be kiddin' me!!!

        I just ... I just don't know where to begin. And I wonder why I'm asked if I'm going to be appropriately dressed when I perform. And I wonder why my aunt told me that I'm going to hell for being a bellydancer. Yes, people's ideas about the dance are skewed, but when you see stuff like this ... well, maybe there are some good reasons for why their perceptions are as crazy as they are.

        ETA: And I *really* don't like the image of those two big Black men riding these women. It smacks of racist sexual stereotypes. I'm getting more upset the more I think about it.

        --------------------------------------------------------------------------------



        MOROCCO AGAIN: last year, I was at Rakkasah West & while I was impressed with the good looks & coordination of Sadie & Kaya's troupe, I was decidedly NOT impressed with their costumes or "gentlemen's club" style choreographies/ "poses".

        FWIW: those who know me, know I have no problem with good fusion, Tribal, "sexy", etc. I love a good show, BUT

        From what I've heard - got 137 e-mails in one day!!! - about it to date: OMIGOD!

        IF what I've heard is true (& all described pretty much the same "Kama Sutra" thing, though not so politely...), yes, it was racist, yes it did NOT belong in any ME dance Festival (while Shukriyah is obligated to include other forms of dance or she doesn't get the venue, I feel pretty secure in saying "pornographic" does not qualify as "other forms"!!!) - especially one advertised as "family"

        BTW: ladies - please write directly to Shukriya, Bhuz or med-dance about it - NOT to me. Rakkasah is not MY festival & I have NO power where it's concerned!

        Shukriya has already posted a notice right at the top of the Rakkasah website to the effect that they are no longer Rakkasah teachers ...

        Artistic license is one thing, live illustrations of a notorious sex manual are something totally other & definitely NOT Raks Sharki.

        As for me: Sorry, S&K, it's NOT Art - it's still pornography, which has its place & that place is NOT in a Rakkasah show. We are not your "target audience" & your idea of "art" may just have screwed up what we have been striving for for at least the 45+ years I've been in this biz.

        & as far as the question about "fusion" in Indian dance: ONLY in brothels & musical films, which is WHY they call dances in movies "filmi dance" & NOT Bharata Natyam or Kuchipudi or Kathak or Manipoori or Odissi or Rajasthani or (fill in your own here) or ...

        VERY glad I wasn't there & eating something easily flingable at the time. Have you folks in the audience forgotten about the power of "BOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!" (& I don't mean the one Caspar says on Halloween....) or were you shocked into silence?

        There comes a point when "polite" means complicit & silence implies agreement.

        Morocco
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          That is a shining example of why I adore Morocco.

          She said, "...while I was impressed with the good looks & coordination of Sadie & Kaya's troupe, I was decidedly NOT impressed with their costumes or "gentlemen's club" style choreographies/ "poses"."

          I saw Kaya last year here in Dallas, and two bellydance husbands at our table whispered at separate times, "she needs a pole." It's one thing to be sexy & vamp-like, quite another to cause your audience to think a "money shot" is on the horizon.
  • Re: WTF?????

    Tue, April 4, 2006 - 6:19 PM
    I put a post on bhuz page 26.


    I am sure that some of our other dance sistahs will have to rethink their stands on issues like this that may come up in the future. We all must work together to elevate our dance respect. We Black women have to work harder, for our folks take longer to convimnce.
  • Re: WTF?????

    Wed, April 5, 2006 - 6:04 PM
    Hello ladies ~

    I am posting because one of the dancers here on your tribe, Beatrice, sent me a message and asked me to repost something I wrote in the Rakkasah tribe regarding this particular subject. The thread got a little heated, but I think many attempted to remain civil. Below is the link and my repost

    Sincerely ~ Noel, your sister in dance
    a.k.a. ~ Lotus of Euphoria

    tribes.tribe.net/6dc8f33e-...056cc5fd9f

    Re: Bad perfomance from Kaya and SadieFri, March 31, 2006 - 9:47 AM

    <<<Quote – Lara said:
    It was actually the best performance ever. You know how everyone just does Egyptian belly dance or regular belly dance over and over again? That gets VERY boring. I have been waiting for their dance since November. I am their biggest fan, closest friend, and I’m not saying all of this because I am just there friend. Rakkasah isn’t named belly dance festival, it’s Middle Eastern. They can do anything they want and its still dance. I’m actually very happy they did it because it changed the audience from boredom to "oooooo, ahhhh." After the performance I went to dinner with them. You don’t know how happy they were to finish it and all the hard work they did to complete it. I think it was the best, and I love them with all my heart.

    Lara - endQuote>>>

    (I took the liberty of fixing your grammatical and spelling errors. You’re welcome. People will take you more seriously if you don’t write like a 5 year old.)

    First, if you think it was the best performance ever, then you are massively short-sighted and obviously didn’t watch more of the performances where professionals that have been dancing for decades (some since birth) put on spectacular shows. I understand as a personal friend that you are proud of them. That’s natural. But in this situation you have to look at the larger scope of things.

    Second, and tying into the first, you state that it is a Middle Eastern dance festival, but then you state that they can do anything they want and it’s still dance … this doesn’t make sense and is a complete contradiction in terms. If it’s M.E. dance, then the scope should stay within that genre to some degree. And by the way, belly dance is a “nick name” for M.E. dance so saying that it’s not belly dance, it’s M.E. dance, is the pot calling the kettle black.

    Point blank, this wasn’t the right venue for the spectacle they put on. I wasn’t disgusted. I was a bit shocked, though. First by the demeaning of the “slaves” and then by the blatant sexual overages. Whoever said they took care not to get too close was absolutely blind. No offense, but I was right up front in the audience and there was complete contact everywhere. It was like a train wreck. I couldn’t peel my eyes from it. Only once did I cover my eyes and that’s when the girls where upside down and their breasts were falling out of their tops. I was embarrassed for them. Otherwise I watched the whole thing up close and personal.

    What I think may be the most poignant aspect of this debacle (and what is upsetting most people) is the history of our dance as an art form and how so many of us strive to rise above the myth that oriental dancers are strippers and what we do is purely sexual in nature. Tell that to those of us who have studied ballet, jazz, tap, along with the various forms of M.E. dance to perfect our technique for years on end! Then something like this comes along and presents itself in a venue that is not only for the dancers of our community but also has a massive influx from the general public. They see this and think, “Ah, so THIS is belly dance! Riiiight…” This sets us back one spectator at a time in what the women of this dance have been working toward for years. It’s about respect for those that have come before us and our sisters in the Middle East who are still ridiculed for it. It was so inappropriate for the venue. Agree or disagree, it’s a fact. Kaya and Sadie could be feeling repercussions of this for years to come.

    Thanks to Rakkasah I have had the opportunity to train with some of the best dancers in the world: Jamila, Suhaila, Leila, Fahtiem, Shoshanna, Margo, Dalia, Fatima, Suzanna, Elena… It is one of my goals to experience and learn from as many sources as possible. I want to strive for my personal best. But after this, I will never look to train with these girls. It’s not what my dance is about. I have a feeling I am not alone. Respect is important.

    Sincerely, Noel
  • Re: WTF????? This is a HOT MESS!

    Fri, April 14, 2006 - 5:29 PM
    Just based on the images that appear on the link provided above by Nandi, I’m a bit confused. I don’t know any Black men who have a problem with burying their face in any White woman’s crotch. My own Father, for example, would have volunteered to be a part of that "dance" performance simply for the CHANCE at touching a White woman. Speaking from personal experience, this IS the typical behavior of Black men and I am personally sick and tired of it. Seriously, would there be so much fuss if everyone on that stage had been white? And if everyone involved had been Black the audience may have thought they were watching any random video on BET.

    Black men are the first to disaaprove of and dirty look a Black woman with a White man, and when done scowling at them, return his full attention to the White woman that HE is on a date with.

    The last good Black man that walked the Earth was nailed to a cross an extremely long time ago. I’m not bitter. I just tell the truth.
    • Re: WTF????? This is a HOT MESS!

      Fri, April 14, 2006 - 6:00 PM
      Whoa. Whoa! Let's slow down here. Now, I'm not saying those Black men who were a part of that whole travesty aren't at fault for the part they played in it - they totally are. And I am the first to hop on the bandwagon when it comes to speaking against the misogyny of all those booty-shakin' videos on BET and the like. And yes, there are way too many Black men who treat White women as if they're the Holy Grail. But to jump from that to saying that the last good Black man was JESUS is way too huge a leap for me to take with you, if only because I have known many a good Black man in my life. No, they aren't perfect men, but they are *good* men. And if we start saying that there are no good Black men left, then we are, in effect, killing ourselves, because why would we want to propogate a race full of bad? Why would we want to reproduce and flourish with men who aren't worthy of us?

      There *are* good Black men out there, sister. Plenty of them. I am married to one. My father is one, as is my grandfather, as are my uncles ... and on and on and so forth. We have had centuries of others telling us that we aren't good or worthy ... we don't really need to say those things to ourselves, now do we?
    • Re: WTF????? This is a HOT MESS!

      Mon, April 17, 2006 - 9:04 AM
      "There *are* good Black men out there, sister. Plenty of them. I am married to one. My father is one, as is my grandfather, as are my uncles ... and on and on and so forth. We have had centuries of others telling us that we aren't good or worthy ... we don't really need to say those things to ourselves, now do we?"

      I agree with this sister wholeheartedly! There are many good Black men out there. I thank God that I have a husband and father that fit into that catagory. And, I know plenty of Black men who wouldn't touch a White woman intimately with a ten foot pole! Most Black men are very happy with having a strong Black woman at their sides and in their beds. I have to say that I feel sorry for you. Very sorry! I'm sorry that your experiences with Black men have caused you to have these feelings. I wish that I could share some of the wonderful experiences that I have had with you. Certainly our history speaks to the fact that for decades the White woman was the forbidden prize for many Black men and that does continue for some but not for all by any stretch of the imagination. Sometimes the energy we put out is what we get back and if you think that Black men are no good then you probably draw that type of man to you. But that's a different conversation for a different tribe.

      The point of the matter is that we want to change the fact that people think that way about the brothers (when it's not true). This type of display is only helping to perpetuate the negative image of brothers bowing down to and chasing after White women. This was even worse because it wasn't just Black men being represented on stage but Black men acting as slaves to White women. Things like this have helped many people to think just like you do about our men.

      Secondly, we want to change how people think about the art of bellydance. A head in your crotch is not art! Well, at least not the type of art that bellydance represents. If everyone on the stage had been White this aspect of this argument would still be a problem. Respecting the art you represent has nothing to do with race, creed or color but has everything to do with how you value yourself and the things you've chosen to participate in. That crosses all lines. We should all, as bellydancers, be able to expect to be represented with honor and respect. I personally don't want to be associated with that type of behavior.
      • Re: WTF????? This is a HOT MESS!

        Tue, October 13, 2009 - 2:04 AM
        "And, I know plenty of Black men who wouldn't touch a White woman intimately with a ten foot pole!"

        I feel utterly uncomfortable with this statement. For its blatant racism.
        I'm pretty sure it's not if and because I am "white" (here in Europe I am considered "white" as opposed to "black"; but a "foreigner"; in America I was told by black folks it was ok I was one of them ("of colour"), or because of being Arab or Muslim.. and hence oppressed by colonialism/imperialism etc..).
    • Re: WTF????? This is a HOT MESS!

      Tue, October 13, 2009 - 2:07 AM
      "Seriously, would there be so much fuss if everyone on that stage had been white?"

      Ya, there would have been fuss. Many Arabs and Mideasterners are up on the trees when they see oversexualized oriental dance, whether done by Westerners or Arabs (the outrage is slightly higher when foreigners do it, probably because you feel they mess with your heritage). Many many American bellydancers are very respectful to the dance, and want to preserve and respect and protect it. I'd bet the huge majority of people complaining about oversexual bellydance in America are "ethnic" American women. And they are to absolutely thank for their support of the true art form..
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    Re: WTF?????

    Mon, April 17, 2006 - 2:28 PM
    This is crazy! This is not bellydance! This is why so many people are confused as to what bellydancing is! These "girls" need to do their role-playing in a more appropriate venue and stop calling this bellydance. This is confusing and makes it hard for real artists to be seen in appropriate environments, because these chicks are going around parading this scum as bellydance. What "real" bellydancers do and this are two very different things!

    And who the heck are these guys! Do they not see a problem with their performance! It is totally inappropriate! If they don't the problem is bigger than I thought! Some real bellydance and appropriateness education needs to happen!

    Obviously slavery is alive and well and so is the original master, the all mighty dollar.

    This is sick! Somebody PLEASE pass me the barf bag!

    Peace Yall,

    Keva
    www.kevalarthridgemack.com
  • Re: WTF?????

    Sun, June 18, 2006 - 5:50 AM
    Absolutely awful!! I've been seeing American women degrade bellydance in so many ways it is unbelievable. People who really care to keep this dance ancient and traditional must speak up against travesties like this and at the same time set a much better example.

    Those brothas do look like slaves in those photos. Seem like they would not want to be presently associated as a slave in this day and time. I guess not. You could not have paid me enough money to do some crap like that. Every man should have principles then again, I guess not.
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      Re: WTF?????

      Mon, June 19, 2006 - 10:27 AM
      "The last good Black man that walked the Earth was nailed to a cross an extremely long time ago."

      This made me laugh! I think I might get a t-shirt made with that quote!
  • Re: WTF?????

    Tue, October 13, 2009 - 7:52 AM
    Crap! I'm 3 years to late...

    Oki, I get the jist of what happened from all the replies but I need to see this one...

    Somebody please tell me there's a working link to the video or pics somewhere.

    And for the record, never take anything shown on BET seriously. Everyone knows they're out to destroy Black people ;-)
    • Re: WTF?????

      Wed, October 14, 2009 - 2:27 AM
      BET? what's that?
      No, there is no link to the notorious performance unfortunately.

      But I was given some graphic descriptions yesterday, one cunnilingus simulation, and some other practices. I don't have to elaborate I hope. This was obviously from someone more put off by the sexuality in the performance.
      I must say I am put off by both, the ethnic one and the porn aspect.

      Apparently it harmed them quite a bit.. I heard talk about it yesterday, hence why I researched that thread, and commented, and brought this one back to life.. there was talk about quite a few instructors boycotting events hosting these dancers..
      • Re: WTF?????

        Wed, October 14, 2009 - 3:47 PM
        BET = Black Entertainment Television. Generally a good idea (when it first came out) since there are very few positive television shows geared toward the Black community. But now a days, mostly due to ratings, the quality of the shows on that channel have gone down. Regular watching of this channel will greatly skew one's image of the Black community.

        All in all, I think if given the chance I would still train under them if given the opportunity. I've always been a fan of their technique which is why it bites to hear of what has transpired 3yrs ago. Am I offended at the racial & sexual instances? Yes I am. Had this been done at a more adult venue? Not so much, unless they were still coming in on shoulders of Black men etc, etc. Do I think they deserve a 2nd chance? Yes. If this was done 3yrs ago then they are probably still feeling the sting and may in the future be more wise on what they dance to and where they perform that dance.

        I hope that eventually they'll (if the haven't already) be forgiven for what happened. Hopefully the rest of the Bellydance community is forgiving as well as welcoming...
  • Re: WTF?????

    Mon, October 19, 2009 - 3:29 PM
    I am surprised and shocked at Sadie and Kaya. I would think they would have known better. Why market yourself that way? On the flip they have been pushing that envelope from being sensual to being overly sexual for a while. They won't get any money from me.
    -I said good day-

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